Today we had a pay date in the park, and I felt like an over protective mother. Now in my defense, Mia was the youngest of the kids that could run around and play.
But I felt like I was constantly holding my breath, and on the edge if my seat the whole time. The other moms were chatting and enjoying each others company, while I was trying to keep on eye on Mia.
I decided to give her some space and see how she would do. She ran around with the older kids, and was having a good time. Then I think she wanted to test me…she started climbing up the slide. At first she could just get half way up, then she would slide down. But after a few tries she made it all the way up to the top. She was so proud of herself; she smiled at me, waved, and then sat down, and slid down the slide. Even though I was watching her the whole time, and was ready to jump up at any second, I was glad I let her figure it out on her own.
I think learning when to help and when to let her struggle and learn on her own is going to be a constant struggle for me.